Boundaries, Narcissistic

How To Avoid Falling Into Another Narcissistic Relationship

No one sets out to get into a relationship with a narcissist, but it can happen all too easily. If you've been through a divorce with a narcissist like I have, you know how devastating they can be. It is very easy for us to fall into old patterns with deep rooted triggers from the past.

But we can break this cycle when we are equipped with the right perspective and tools. This isn’t an easy process since it requires working on yourself and breaking behaviors that would contribute to you attracting a narcissistic relationship. With Gods support and grace we can do difficult tasks like this and come out the other side with positive momentum.

To help equip you with the right “tools” I wanted to share some powerful tips to avoid getting into another narcissistic relationship, and breaking the negative cycle:

Don’t explain yourself for your thoughts or behaviors. Instead, make short statements about what is or is not comfortable to you.
Feel comfortable saying “no.”
Develop assertiveness skills that help you maintain those new boundaries.

If you find yourself not being able to withstand the narcissistic tendencies, end the relationship. It wasn’t right for you anyway.

No one deserves to be treated the way narcissists treat their victims. Remembering these points will help protect your heart from another toxic relationship. These tips are the foundation to ultimately creating the positive behavior shift.

God Has The Right Relationship For You!

It may be hard to believe, but God wants you to find the you He designed in the first place. He wants to champion you in your healing process. He wants to come alongside you and find your true identity!

There is a whole new world of living free from all that happened to you in your relationship with a narcissist! I know, because I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 10 years and it left me feeling broken, unworthy, and like I wasn’t good enough. But God has been so faithful to heal my heart and restore my identity as His daughter! He showed me that the only way to break free from the cycle of abuse is by walking into freedom through Jesus Christ. And now you can too!

Are you currently struggling with the side effects of being in a relationship with a narcissist? I feel for you and I’m here for you. One thing you need to know is God puts the people in our life that we need to learn from or grow with. So, it is no surprise you have ended up here reading this blog. We crossed paths for a reason and I would love to become more of that support system you need to grow into the healthier version of yourself.

I invite you to join my newsletter where I can communicate with you weekly to provide support and a sounding board as you walk this path. Then because I want to make sure you are getting access to the right information to heal from this I will also send you a copy of my ebook Destiny After Divorce.

I can assure you that you are in the right place and together with God this will be turned into a beautiful part of your journey.

Join myself and our amazing community by clicking the link below. Once you join the newsletter I will send you over a copy of my book Destiny After Divorce.

Move forward on your healing journey today!

Yours in healing,


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